See, here's the thing. My attempt here is to offer you guys the closer you clearly crave for whatever grievance you feel has been done to you undeserved.
I see s repeated cycle of one the one hand hating her and her art while at the same time craving more about it about her. You claim you've been personally wronged, but don't want the issue resolved you just fester in this odd obsession over things you can't get over from years ago.
I say let's squash this childish beef, but you some of you are right. I'm aware of how pointless making the offer is, but I want it to be known that it was made, so that any issue further is on you.
I will say as innocent in these interactions the people who write here talking about how they were wronged is far from 100% the truth. I've seen the messages, I've seen the interactions. Hell you can tell in how they write here. We're talking about people who have zero social skills, have no ability to know a social boundary of how far one can talk to an artist online, and then get personally crushed when their advances for are rebuffed or they have to be put in their place for how inappropriate they are being, but come to a hug box of woe, to try to ego boost themselves in a campaign.
And I get it. You don't like how she choices to do business. You don't like that she uses her art "behind a pay wall" and "Fans" will be "Fans" and try all they can to get more of what they desire. I get it. It's now the nature of the beast. But drop this pretense that any way you've been treated wasn't deserved because some of you never approach male artist they way you do female. And if it's due to a mental issue or disability, then that's understandable, but it's still not acceptable.
So yes, I get Putting your name on your statements is not smiled upon in a place like this. But I like to be straight up and honest with people when I say something. If you have an issue, by all means come directly at me with it. And yeah, I'll go back to pretending this place doesn't exist with it's multiple issues it allows.
But, if I'm assuming that I can't expect people to be a minimum better than what you've displayed, then the fault is mine for thinking you are capable of being so.
But let me tell you, going through something like this, SUCKS. The feeling of helplessness you feel SUCKS. The wondering about what could have been SUCKS. Watching the people you care about go through something human yet still painful, SUCKS. And seeing people take joy and glee at that pain and suffering sucks too. But, Some folks get off on that, and that sadiy is what it is too.
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