Sex isn't a big deal my dudes, like, at all. It's not at all connected with love, loving someone can enhance sex, but lusting over a hot bad doesn't mean you love someone, even if the sex was great
As long as you aren't actually having sex behind your partner's back, and are being, ya know, adults about it and both feel that way towards sex then I really don't see what the problem is.
If you see sex as something to only be shared between you and the one you're with, then find a partner that shares those values, and that's cool.
Whether it's your cup of tea or not, either way's valid based on what you like, what's not ok is hurting someone else by lying about your views/interests, since the most important thing behind a relationship is trust.
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